Further to my 'Abandoned' and 'Abandoned Update' posts over recent weeks, the latter, meeting a lovely Filipino nurse here in the UK has also turned pear shaped!! Even on our first date, we hadn't chatted too long and were even then intimately touching each other's hands as we had a meal together, when she said she had a serious financial situation and needed £1,700 urgently and wanted me to disclose my bank account details!! It was our first meeting. I hardly knew her. There's no way that I would meet her stupendous requests for money, let alone that sort of request at this very early stage! She said it was a 'life or death situation'. She wouldn't listen to my reasons for not being prepared to do this and then accused me of being stingy and being heartless! I said she would have to seek an alternative. She didnt even tell me what the money was for!! She just looked at me coldly and got up and said goodbye. I'm not a heartless and not stingy either. I maintain that I was within my rights to stand up and to respond to her that way. I'm really getting fed up with being deceived and discovering the questionable integrity of the Filipinos I hav,e been associated with. Two bad apples now. What is wrong with them?? I am sure all Filipino girls aren't like this? Am I being unreasonable in refusing to pay out money of this magnitude to someone I hardly know? I don't think so. Anyway another Filipino bites the dust! Where is the real article? She must be out there somewhere!