<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(tony and arlene &#064; Apr 10 2006, 07&#58;01 AM) Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>
Hmmm , guess you may have already answered all these questions so many times before , but hey its all new to me...... so in a nutshell.......found the girl.....talked for months " ont tinternet " went over to cebu a month ago....completely blown away by the genuinly happy time had there.........beautiful girl.....beautiful everything .........back home now heartbroken and recovering ..........and holding a multi page settlement visa application form....shes just about to dhl her birth certificate , her late husbands death certificate hmmm ( should I start worrying &#33;&#33;&#33;&#33 and a passport pic.

Now I am reading about copies of western umion receipts and messenger logs ......hmmm never thought of those...can anyone advise a manchester lad how to make he succeeds in getting his girl here .for example

Does she need other papers in the dhl envelope for me

should I go back and marry here in a month or too .we want this and I know about the CNI so got that one covered....will it help my case or not.

what else can I do to assist my application for her.Ive got the forms so I guess I send it off in the uk for her or should it be done by her in the philippines

anyone help a guy out here......................?
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To be really brutally honest, you haven&#39;t got a hope in hell yet. You really need to build up evidence of a long established relationship, proof to the embassy that you have known each other for a long time, are really in love, collect photos, letters, postcards, birthday cards, etc etc proof that you are really going to stay together for ever, and more important; that you aren&#39;t going to cost the government any money if she runs away a soon as she arrives here and signs on the social

And it sounds like you need to do a lot more research on exactly how to apply for the visa. Not trying to be insulting here, but there is a hell of a lot to learn before making visa moves. She applies for the visa in the PI, you can&#39;t do it for her, from England or anywhere else. Browse around this site for a few days, especially in the immigration forums, follow recent stories of visa applications and learn what you can. Loads of reading and studying is required, there&#39;s no easy answer, or easy way.

Good luck.