Hi KewLan
Just read your posting. It seems that you and I have had similar experiences but each of them round the other way if you see what I mean.(Male/Female and Female/Male). It hurts! Hope you have read my account of what happened in the 'Abandoned' posting a few weeks ago. Its seems to me that it comes down to a question of trust. I'm still reeling following the split from the Filipina girl I had contact with who went off with the American I described in that post. I still can't understand that she could have been so untrustworthy, when for some period she had been dating this big (ugly!) 6'6" tall American without my knowledge. Made me angry and very sad. I still struggle with the fallout. My conclusion is that if there are things going on with one's boyfriend/girlfriend, then that person is not serious about the relationship and cannot be trusted. Its a hard thing to accept I know, but for me, it didn't end there and another girl came along and I got the pressure of requests for finance! Double woe suffered! I wish I had an answer, but all I would say is don't despair and keep searching. Don't give up in other words. The right guy is out there. (I am hoping the same for me is true with the right girl). I don't know if that helps? I'm no counsellor. Whatever you do..take care and I wish you well. beedeejay.
