Quote Originally Posted by LadyJ View Post
call them lola / lolo

As the other members said ask your wife or in-laws what they prefer you to call them.

If your in-laws are really old try doing the 'mano or bless' to them, it's just one of the Philippine tradition and repect to the adult or old people.

Ask your wife to demonstrate to you how to do the 'mano or bless'.
Some of the guys here are older than the mother/father in laws.lol