Blimey you got a flow chart for thatOnly joking that sounds like your doing the right thing only fools rush in and you both need to get to know one another
Like i wrote before just make sure your mahal understands the dates the Wife and her realtives i notice will go yup yup and then ask me why certain things are happening alittle later
From what my Wife has told me due to the slower pace of life, 2011 seems to be far further away than it is with our hertic scheuldes.