Hi Mike,
Why don't you consider buying her a computer, that is, if she able to get wi-fi where she is. The other option is to get her to find a boarding house near to the web cafe and pay for her to stay there. Or maybe even do both, pay for her to stay in a boarding house and buy her a computer also.
I would think that 99% of the guys on here have been through this daunting process so you have definately come to the right place to get advice on all of the things you are about to go through and all of the potential pitfalls.
I suggest that you use the search function on here first and then if you can't find out what you need to know, just ask. I'm sure you will find the members here only too willing to help you.
Louella & Iain.