hi Aposhark,
am sorry for what had happened with ur experience with WU but I guess whatever the outcome may be take it as a learning experience..
and like sis leah had said, it will be better that ur gf will have her own identification so there will be no third party needed when u send her financial support..
she can get a postal ID from their post office or even her school ID,as long as it is still valid or even NBI Clearance..