great advice andypaul! I will wait until I get a full written explanation of what happened and in the meantime ignore the pleading texts. After all, I was the one who sent the money.I have a gut feeling that I will not find out who caused this problem, I feel like I am
The money did "appear" when I threatened her with breaking off contact and to not treat me as a "stupid kano ATM machine".
I believe she loves me, but I feel I am battling against forces of poverty which I have never dealt with before.