<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(berniedalton &#064; Apr 24 2006, 09&#58;01 PM) Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>
hi to all, im off to the philippines in september and getting married in october, after an 18mth courtship, i will be meeting my in-laws for the first time, my question is should i bring gifts with me? my future asawa is the eldest of seven, I need help as I want to ensure that my bride and the family are happy, help-what do i do?
bernie dalton
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Do bring gifts but don&#39;t go over the top. Bringing small gifts over from the UK will go down well with most.

Perfumes, cosmetics, choclate, t shirts all go down well in my family.

For example biscuits from Harrods in a posh tin, a bit naff say in the uk. But will have pride of place on the table.

Talking to your Asawa should give you lots of ideas.

I also cheat by taking the Wife and some of her tita&#39;s and their kids to the Duty free superstore near Manila airport. Where you can buy huge packs of Choclate and any thing else you can think off. Went down a storm with the kids and saved me carting so many gifts over.

Also with the choclate we kept getting free gifts like a water dispenser or a couple of rusacks for college for the kids. In the UK you would not give house room to the gifts but in phill they were greatly recieved by various realtives.