hi everyone....well thanx for all ur responses........ i didnt realise it would provoke some of the responses that were posted,,, naughty children!!!!! haHA... me personally way i look at things is my asawa's family is my family, they took me in, gave me their most precious gift, their daughter, if i can give i give no big deal, a child is a child, no matter what culture they're from, i took it as it was meant.. from a 5 year child, as the father of 5 i know that children get excited, may Godbless them for it because they bring such joy into our lives, doesn't mean they don't have any discipline just means they are excited and happy, which i want for any child, i now have the list from asawa but as she says 'it doesn't matter if you can't, just come because the whole family wants to see you' i think that says it all, to be loved is the greatest gift of all, amen to that
if you don't hear from me from one week to the next its because i am a chef manager and at the moment i am working 12hr shifts at nite 7-days aweek.... well gotta to look after loved ones haven't we? haha
hope that you all have peace in ur hearts and by the way i made a mistake i got confused (as is often the case) when i said ate,ate, the child was speaking to her big sister at the time, it was my mistake, cu all later
bernie
