Unlucky in love!!

[andypaul]

I have been reading through older posts here and feel there are wide diferences in perspective.

One male said it was understandable that ladys in the phils chated to several men on the basis that one might come (eggs in baskets sort of thing),

I think until you have met non-judgment is the rule and I certainly wouldn't be critical of any one here for making connections in the Phil's if your time is very limited and your lady doesn't show or want you or is still with her husband etc you might be grateful to have a few phone numbers to call.

There is a difference between preparation and cynicism

I agree nothing wrong with either the man or woman chating to others as long as they are not claiming to be in a serious comitted relationship. Same in the Uk as it is in phill.

I know my Wife and a lot of ladies on here would find it strange to be flirting with lots of guys just not the way she was brought up. As is the same for my Sister and many women i know here.

if the guy said he is just poping over to see these ladies and never claimed to be in a exclusive relationship then fair doos. But at least one of them im sure would be just a little shoocked to find out what he was actualy up to.

I guess a lot of us have very different circumstances in which we met and how our relationships developed.