my hubby have two brothers who is younger than him.
a 22 yr old and 19 yr old guys who already have stable jobs.....
even on the first time i came here, the 19 yrs old brother of my hubby already dont like me...he keep on throwing out sarcastic remark towards me..wich i dont know why
i have told my hubby about his attitude towards me but my hubby said just ignore him,,its already his attitude so i should just let go all the irritatating stuff he is saying to me....
me and my husband used to stay in my inlaws house when i came here, but after a couple of months we got a new flat and move out,,,,
ON DESAME TIME, my husband brothers (who is living together on those time) suddenly desided to just seperate ways. the 19 yrs old brother suddenly decide to buy a flat with his girl friend, leaving the 22 yrs old without any place to stay....so the 22 ask my hubby if he can stay with us for a couple of months until he will be able to get a better job and will be able to get is own flat....my hubby is a very nice and kind to his brothers so he accept him in his flat....on that time every one seemes very nice to me and they ask me if the 22 yrs old brother of my husband can stay with us for a while....so i said yes...with open arms and with a smile...
but i regret it....coz the moment he move in to our flat...lots of crazy stuff happen that freak me out and became argument with me and my husband...
here are those crazy stuff:
*the 22 yrs old brother or my husband bring people in our apartment and make them sleep over...
*they watch tv and play ps3 the whole night until the next morning and make the volume of the tv so high,,,(am amaze our neighbor is not complaining about the noise)
*and then their 19 yrs old brother came over and just do whatever they feel like,,,,
*the 22 yrs old brother of my husband is so messy in his room and my husband is one who usually clean he's room, most of the time i close his room when he leave it open coz it smell (stink alot!!!)
*he never wash the dishes the he used,,,
*he just leave the mess wherever he feel like leaving it...
*he go in and out of our room....with no consent from me nor my husband..
I feel like am no one in my own flat...
then one time i really freak out when i went to work and my supervisor told me i can have the whole day off coz i been working 6 days straight ,,,
when i went back on our flat i remember that my hubby have my key, but im not too worried when im on my way coz my husbands two brothers are in our flat....it was raining on that morning and i started to ring my flat to get inside the building...but no one answered,,,,i rang so many time for almost 30 min but no one dare to open the door...since our building door bell is so loud our old neighbor heard it and went out his flat and open the main door of the building....but when i get to my flat door they still didnt open up the door...
i remember i have a spare key for the gate of our flat,,,when i open the gate of our flat i was so relife to know that the 2nd door of our flat is not locked...when i got inside i was so furious,the door of my brother inlaws is closed....i called my husband in his work and told him what happened,,,,and i got more furious when he said that, he's brothers might have a good reason why they didnt open the door.....
when my husband came after work, he ask his brothers why they didnt open the door when i rang the door bell...and they said...they are not bothered to open it because they are sleeping....
but the phone bell is just 5 steps from their room,,,and the window is just beside their bed...how can they are not be bother to look who is out side that keep on ringing the door bell for 30min....
im so annoyed and imwith those people...
do i have no right to feel that way? or im just paranoid...
sorry for the long wrong grammar and wrong english of mine,,,just want to share a piece of my mind...
cheers!!!
