hi there allyn
im really sorry about your problem.. its really a hard situation to get into... I can imagine..
i just want to say that yes it is quite unfair for his brothers to disrespect you.. and i think that really should be put on straight..
but also i just wanted to say that i dont think your husband is putting you second to them.. I think he is just as torn as you are.. lets also try to understand the husband that he also loves his family and his brothers... and that if it was also you, asking for help from him bec one of your family member is in trouble.. im sure he wouldnt mind helping.. try to work this out with your husband.. but i suggest compromise..
