Quote Originally Posted by andypaul View Post
Your Husband and his dad seem like very weak people. Worried at upsetting the little Brothers/sons.

Is there any members of the family or his friends you get on with well. Your hubbys mum any aunts, any of his mates or neighbours?

maybe it needs to be told to him by another person, some blokes are thick when it comes to feelings and emotional things they need it spelt out to them in BIG LETTERS and sometimes from different people.
i used to get on well with my mother in law, when she found out about my argument with my husband about her two son's, she talk to me and tell me that in this country its natural in their age to act that way, they used to do those crazy stuff their doing in my flat on their parents place..she said they are used to it and understand it....
after that talk she became cold to me...