Am I bonkers?

[lavander]

It is not for me....

I was planning to stream your encounter live on the net.....

You are a good sport.... good luck in your search for happiness.

i know dear...dont worry...i keep everyone posted ...

right mr amibonker?....


still u have'nt email me ?.... there's no harm in trying?!...
but if ur head over heels inlove with ur gf now, then its ok...

goodluck and cheer up...

@aromulus ..how about help me finding one for me
i prefer to meet someone matured hmmm 10yrs older than me ( am 30yo btw)....ok?,,, let me know...

lavander

[joebloggs]

i'll keep a note of your email adress lavander , just incase i get the misses to go back to the phils with little joe, , keeps threatening, still not gone thou

[aromulus]

i'll keep a note of your email adress lavander , just incase i get the misses to go back to the phils with little joe, , keeps threatening, still not gone thou

Awwwwwwwwwww....

The ever useful plan B..........

[joebloggs]

i'm worried about the 'matured ' bit, never been called that, oh well, scrubbed out of my little black book

[aromulus]

i'm worried about the 'matured ' bit, never been called that, oh well, scrubbed out of my little black book

It is a word which I would associate with a block of old cheddar.....

[gracia143]

Where is my USB extension for the webcam lead...???

Watch out Dom, Jet is coming.

[gracia143]

i'll keep a note of your email adress lavander , just incase i get the misses to go back to the phils with little joe, , keeps threatening, still not gone thou

Ooopppssssssss!

[lavander]

i'm worried about the 'matured ' bit, never been called that, oh well, scrubbed out of my little black book

Hey, its my sweet way of addressing 'senior citizen' or oldies hahahhaa...


on the positive note,i am looking forward to end up with a 'matured' one as i find them more caring,sensitive and interesting to be with....


take care


lavander..

[keithAngel]

Antiques are even more worth

[Alan]

Antiques are even more worth

Thank you!

Al.

[Piamed]

Good look Lavander!

[Piamed]

Let's try 'luck' instead. Perhaps Freudian slip! HEHE!

T

[lavander]

Good look Lavander!

hmmmmmmmmm

[andy17]

I agree that the best solution is a trip to Manila to meet her. Nothing else will have the same effect.

Thanks for the feedback. It is much appreciated.

Mr Bonkers,

There are hundreds of thousands of good, decent, honest, chaste, sweet, kind and honest young ladies from Philippines who are just waiting for a nice guy to come along and make them happy.

A Filipina companion who is in love with you and wants to be with you, will defend you to the ends of the earth, and will never let you down.

Best of Luck.

Am... there's so much good, sound info here from all these folks. Learn from their experience. I am a complete novice to this so I hope I am looking through the same "hopeful" eyes as you are and I hope you don't mind me sharing my thoughts. I liked peter's quote above particularly... after reading your story, I feel you are clinging to this lady because of the investment you have made in time, effort and money.
Either, as you said, go there soon and confirm your feelings or start a new search with a new perspective.

I wish you well with your quest! Reading this story has been insipiring and enlightening! good luck!
Andy17

[aromulus]

Thank you!

Al.

I thought I could smell corduroy......

Nice to see you around Teach....

Seems that you are keeping a low profile lately.

[amibonkers?]

Thanks for all the feedback everyone.
I'll keep you informed once I get over to Manila, which won't be for a while yet.
Amazingly, I received a letter from my gf's mother thanking me for being a friend and for my help. I also received some answers from my gf to questions I had asked and feel I shall continue with our friendship but will still plan to go to Manila to see things for myself.

[joebloggs]

Amazingly, I received a letter from my gf's mother thanking me for being a friend and for my help.

yes i got an email from my then g/f's mom when she found out about us, telling me to .


no i'm not joking

sometimes i wonder if i should have took the hint

[Alan]

I thought I could smell corduroy......

Nice to see you around Teach....



Seems that you are keeping a low profile lately.

Thanks Dom - been in Cebu for a week.

But now I'm back!!!!

Al.

[andypaul]

Thanks Dom - been in Cebu for a week.

But now I'm back!!!!

Al.

Welcome back to you both.

Cebu what a hard life it is for you Alan

[LittleFingers]

A month.
I also sent her a digital camera.
I think I am bonkers. Here are my suspicions?
Tonight I had to tell her that I couldn't send her money this week and she told me that she was out of food. So far I have only seen 5 pictures taken by the camera and she says it's out of batteries already. Because I told her she was not getting money she turned off her web cam "to relax". Perhaps she was online with someone else? It was 3 a.m. there and she was talking online to me. Western time zones? When the cam came back on she was wearing another top. She said it was because it's very hot. Lastly she says she is at a girl friends house at 3 a.m. and will go home at 6 a.m. - could it be a boyfriend's house?

I guess what I'm saying is that my suspicions, whether valid or not, are driving me crazy. I want so much to trust her but I imagine the worst all the time and don't know how I can prove to myself that she is a) honest or b) a con artist.

Perhaps, I'd better end it as there is no way of getting proof, is there?

sorry bud, wake up and smell the coffee. you are being a sucker. close the door and move on...if you are not comfortable at this stage of a 'relationship', bollix to it. give yourself a shake!!!

[Alan]

Dear Bonk,

My advice, for what it's worth.

LEAVE WELL ALONE!!!!

If you want an explanation of my comment, I shall be glad to give - however, red flags are waving all over the place here. 'Nuff said.

Al.

[Alan]

Welcome back to you both.

Cebu what a hard life it is for you Alan

Andy - you don't know the half of it.

My ice cold beer started to go warm this morning after I had finished my swim before it reached 35 degrees (my comfort limit.)

Got a bloody beach party tomorrow with a few friends. Ain't life just a b***h?

Al.

[andypaul]

Andy - you don't know the half of it.

My ice cold beer started to go warm this morning after I had finished my swim before it reached 35 degrees (my comfort limit.)

Got a bloody beach party tomorrow with a few friends. Ain't life just a b***h?

Al.

thankfully the Ice in my drink is not melting in fact the entire drink is freezing up

[chino]

yes i got an email from my then g/f's mom when she found out about us, telling me to .


no i'm not joking

sometimes i wonder if i should have took the hint

damn... i hope i don't get the same treatment... not spoken to the mother yet...

[joebloggs]

damn... i hope i don't get the same treatment... not spoken to the mother yet...

her mom was only trying to protect her , she was telling me that she was the smallest of her kids, and didn't want her hurt by anyone

her mom is a really nice lady (and i don't have to say that ), but her father, well first thnig he told me about was his gun collection

[keithAngel]

This is my Rifle this is my Gun..............that sort of collection

[chino]

but her father, well first thnig he told me about was his gun collection

not good... you know how cheap life in the PI, My gf brothers sisters husband (no i did not make this up) is back in the province because of a murder - well that's what i was told

[kimmi]

My gf brothers sisters husband (no i did not make this up) is back in the province because of a murder - well that's what i was told

[chino]

Kimmi - like i said that's what i was told but i don't know if its true...

I hope it is not..............

She is now separated from her husband (i don't think they got married) as she is only 17.... look @ her she is very young..

[joebloggs]

not good... you know how cheap life in the PI, My gf brothers sisters husband (no i did not make this up) is back in the province because of a murder - well that's what i was told

well he named each of his guns after his kids

my wifes uncle, hes on the run for killing a guy who tried to rip him off at a gambling game