Am I bonkers?

[IainBusby]

until i get there i credit her with being autonomous and whilst i might send an occasional gift i will not send money until we have met and confirmed our interest in each other.

When I first met my gf (now wife), although I was never asked to send money by her, I had been asked by others and had already decided this was the position I would take from the outset with any possible relationship online.

My wife never asked for money, she was working and contributing to her family welfare.

Same here. Even when I asked her to meet me in Manila when I first went to Phils to visit her and she agreed, she asked me if she should borrow the money for the airfare and was quite prepared to do so. I did of course send her the money for this.

After we met the second time, and both realized that we were mutually compatible, I started with some financial help

I started with financial help after the first visit.

On my second trip over, I did bring a small pc with me, to leave with her, had her connected to broadband, and phone line in the house

Almost the same here but in my case, I sent the money for the PC etc after the first visit.

The only times she actually asked me to send "her allowance" was when I forgot to do it, due to the traveling involved with my job. And the bills for the above were overdue.

Same here more or less.


Iain.

[chino]

I cannot find the pic but i have it on a disk in my office... Its a Joke from Pattaya in Thailand... It simply says:

"This is my GF her name is Toy" while the thai girl says "This is my BF his name is ATM"

[lavander]

oppss. rest assure am a scammer ....but not of money...but your attentions and affections...



shefield.white4 at gmail dot com

[lavander]

hahaha...i dont usually do offer such this though...

so lets see where this will lead to...

...am a certified filipina...am not after for any material things in life as am blessed to have what anyone can have..am more on finding someone whom am going to share and explore this things called 'life'.....


different things, so exciting to find out..

[lavander]

hahaha...i dont usually do offer such this though...

so lets see where this will lead to...

...am a certified filipina...am not after for any material things in life as am blessed to have what anyone can have..am more on finding someone whom am going to share and explore this things called 'life'.....


different things, so exciting to find out..

...let me add on this..

it will definitely advantage i will be pampered with so much of everything..tangible or intangible...

[aromulus]

hahaha...i dont usually do offer such this though...

so lets see where this will lead to...

...am a certified filipina...am not after for any material things in life as am blessed to have what anyone can have..am more on finding someone whom am going to share and explore this things called 'life'.....


different things, so exciting to find out..

Where is my USB extension for the webcam lead...???

[lavander]

Where is my USB extension for the webcam lead...???

hey... am marketing myself to amibonker ( not to u dear)....
ur taken....

[aromulus]

hey... am marketing myself to amibonker ( not to u dear)....
ur taken....

It is not for me....

I was planning to stream your encounter live on the net.....

You are a good sport.... good luck in your search for happiness.

[lavander]

It is not for me....

I was planning to stream your encounter live on the net.....

You are a good sport.... good luck in your search for happiness.

i know dear...dont worry...i keep everyone posted ...

right mr amibonker?....


still u have'nt email me ?.... there's no harm in trying?!...
but if ur head over heels inlove with ur gf now, then its ok...

goodluck and cheer up...

@aromulus ..how about help me finding one for me
i prefer to meet someone matured hmmm 10yrs older than me ( am 30yo btw)....ok?,,, let me know...

lavander

[gracia143]

Where is my USB extension for the webcam lead...???

Watch out Dom, Jet is coming.

[keithAngel]

Antiques are even more worth

[Alan]

Antiques are even more worth

Thank you!

Al.

[aromulus]

Thank you!

Al.

I thought I could smell corduroy......

Nice to see you around Teach....

Seems that you are keeping a low profile lately.

[Alan]

I thought I could smell corduroy......

Nice to see you around Teach....



Seems that you are keeping a low profile lately.

Thanks Dom - been in Cebu for a week.

But now I'm back!!!!

Al.

[andypaul]

Thanks Dom - been in Cebu for a week.

But now I'm back!!!!

Al.

Welcome back to you both.

Cebu what a hard life it is for you Alan

[Piamed]

Good look Lavander!

[lavander]

Good look Lavander!

hmmmmmmmmm

[Piamed]

Let's try 'luck' instead. Perhaps Freudian slip! HEHE!

T

[amibonkers?]

Thanks for all the feedback everyone.
I'll keep you informed once I get over to Manila, which won't be for a while yet.
Amazingly, I received a letter from my gf's mother thanking me for being a friend and for my help. I also received some answers from my gf to questions I had asked and feel I shall continue with our friendship but will still plan to go to Manila to see things for myself.

[joebloggs]

Amazingly, I received a letter from my gf's mother thanking me for being a friend and for my help.

yes i got an email from my then g/f's mom when she found out about us, telling me to .


no i'm not joking

sometimes i wonder if i should have took the hint

[chino]

yes i got an email from my then g/f's mom when she found out about us, telling me to .


no i'm not joking

sometimes i wonder if i should have took the hint

damn... i hope i don't get the same treatment... not spoken to the mother yet...

[joebloggs]

damn... i hope i don't get the same treatment... not spoken to the mother yet...

her mom was only trying to protect her , she was telling me that she was the smallest of her kids, and didn't want her hurt by anyone

her mom is a really nice lady (and i don't have to say that ), but her father, well first thnig he told me about was his gun collection

[chino]

but her father, well first thnig he told me about was his gun collection

not good... you know how cheap life in the PI, My gf brothers sisters husband (no i did not make this up) is back in the province because of a murder - well that's what i was told

[keithAngel]

This is my Rifle this is my Gun..............that sort of collection

[chino]

Kimmi - like i said that's what i was told but i don't know if its true...

I hope it is not..............

She is now separated from her husband (i don't think they got married) as she is only 17.... look @ her she is very young..

[kimmi]

Kimmi - like i said that's what i was told but i don't know if its true...

I hope it is not..............

She is now separated from her husband (i don't think they got married) as she is only 17.... look @ her she is very young..

let's pray its not true, does she have children?

[chino]

let's pray its not true, does she have children?

no she is only 17... no children..

[Piamed]

Oh my goodness!!! Exercise real caution. Sure, the brother-in-law is not her but I think there are enough red flags emerging to make you think carefully - I hope.

Prostitution, gambling, money debt, perceived wealthy FOREIGNER, murder. have I missed anything?

T

T

[Banana]

amibonkers? Do you really need to ask :(

[Sim11UK]

In the words of Scooby Doo...Yikes!!!

You got too involved with this woman too quickly.
If you are serious about carrying on, you need to get out there, like... tomorrow!!!
Don't hang about here, seriously, you're only setting yourself up for heartache.