Am I bonkers?

[amibonkers?]

I would but the cash it takes to go there is better spent now on helping her and then next year I'll visit her. Thanks for the feedback.

[andypaul]

I would but the cash it takes to go there is better spent now on helping her and then next year I'll visit her. Thanks for the feedback.

Would still advise a meeting people on here will remeber barnsley mark and others...

[joebloggs]

if your serious about her and helping her, you should go and meet her asap, as for you sending her money/her asking it could become a problem over time, so meet her, see where you both stand and if you have a future, if you don't it could cost you a small fortune or worse a big one