does your girl want you to visit her?i was thinking along the same lines as you before i went to phils this febuary.i was really glad i went ,there had been requests for money on several occasions i only ever sent small sums.i bought her a watch which she always wore.i saw every part of her life boardinghouse she lived in,her familes home.office where she worked.i doubted heide alot & thought she just wants money sending,but after 3weeks together i feel iknow heide alot better than i ever could with just web-cam chat.you must know if you really want to visit your girl in phils?good luck.