, i've thought about that in the past, getting me misses aunt to come and look after our daughter, but knowing how difficult that would be i didn't even try. but now we've got little joe, not even 18 months old and hes wrecking the house , i've even thought of sending him to the phils to my misses aunt ...

as for looking after a baby/toddler, my misses gets up everynight to get his milk, works, cooks, cleans, studies , , superhuman she is, of course a filipina

but hes off to a childminder we use for 5 hours a day, while my wife works