Rude Comments

[Piamed]

I heard all the Filipina men queued outside the cinema for 'Free Willy' thinking they'd get a free extension to match the 'foreigners'

Oh my my!

T

PS I have it the magic 100!

[Eljohno]

I heard all the Filipina men queued outside the cinema for 'Free Willy' thinking they'd get a free extension to match the 'foreigners'

And the Irish queued thinking it was a porn movie

[nomorericepleas]

I was just recalling some things that happened to me a few times when walking with my wife when in the Philippines. On occasion people (both men and female but mostly female) walking by would make sexually rude comments about our relationship to her in Suriganon or Bisayan.

My wife ignores them and only tells me what was said when I ask her later. I guess she is worried that I might confront those saying those things to her. I just find it disrespectful to her. I just think they are mindless and rude. I can't say these things are said aggressively or in confrontation but rather curiosity and intrigue perhaps but nevertheless its inappropriate. Sometimes a group of guys will gesticulate their thoughts.

Has anyone else ever experienced people saying/doing these types of things to the gf/wife? I hope I'm not being too vague.

T

yes ur a little vague, but the only similar thing i experienced is that every time we talk with bayots, they tend to ask my fiancee if i have a big tool. they dont seem shy to ask. i'm not sure women ever asked her that, or not when i was around anyway. i can't say i experienced anything as bad as you have or maybe it went in one ear and out the other.

[Piamed]

We were in the Gateway Hotel, Surigao City waiting to finalise our wedding plans with the manager. Surprisingly the manager was late for our appointment

My fiancee went to enquire about his arrival time and a male guest checking in made comments to the effect that she must be so delighted with my credentials.

On another occasion we were looking at the redevelopment going on in the Tavern Hotel having just dined there, when 2 scantily clad ladies teetering on incredibly high heels, each with a Aussie in tow, said how my love must be please several times a night by me because of my

I actually only dislike it as i consider in disrespectful to my wife. Those are the kinds of comments i would imagine pok poks making as they discuss each others day 'on the job'. Fortunately, my wife ignores it as I imagine she has had to face much more of these comments than I even know about.

I would have loved to kick the first guys butt so hard that he would taste my shoe polish! There, i feel much better now!

T

[aposhark]

It seems to me that EVERY country has it's fair share of jerks.

I was speaking once to an English surveyor in Singapore who had just returned from taking his new Filipina bride around his home country.
I was shocked to hear him say that he would never go back to England again after some of the comments he had heard.
I must admit that I am a little worried about this if my GF and I tie the knot in the future and she joins me in UK, but after all is said and done, it is the love and intimacy that we share with our loved ones that is the most important thing. You know, it was all the comments about bar girls etc..
The idiots who say things like this are so ignorant of the ways of the world and they unfortunately bring up their offspring with the same bad attitude.

I will have to learn to keep my mouth shut if anything is said to me and my lady in the future, it seems the best policy as the idiots will only spoil your day.

We all have bad days but if we try to smile at people they will smile back.

It is still a concern of mine and I am still so far away from completion of spousal visa.

[andypaul]

It seems to me that EVERY country has it's fair share of jerks.

I was speaking once to an English surveyor in Singapore who had just returned from taking his new Filipina bride around his home country.
I was shocked to hear him say that he would never go back to England again after some of the comments he had heard.
I must admit that I am a little worried about this if my GF and I tie the knot in the future and she joins me in UK, but after all is said and done, it is the love and intimacy that we share with our loved ones that is the most important thing. You know, it was all the comments about bar girls etc..
The idiots who say things like this are so ignorant of the ways of the world and they unfortunately bring up their offspring with the same bad attitude.

I will have to learn to keep my mouth shut if anything is said to me and my lady in the future, it seems the best policy as the idiots will only spoil your day.

We all have bad days but if we try to smile at people they will smile back.

It is still a concern of mine and I am still so far away from completion of spousal visa.

A lot is in the mind and how you project yourself.

My Wife fits in with both phill mates and non phil. Many think she was born here but is true pinay when with other phills.

we live in multicultral london admitly so its not a problem around here as it could be elsewhere.

If anything some phill women get comments made about them due to the way they behave, dress and act by other filipinas.

[KeithD]

It seems to me that EVERY country has it's fair share of jerks.

I'll take that as a compliment

[aposhark]

I'll take that as a compliment

As long as I can make you feel good, red nose

[Alan]

Blessed are the cheesemakers.

Al.

[vbkelly]

what can i say is just ignore them