Most Filipina when looking for a nice Westerner are looking to start a new life, make new friends, get away from the daily grind of the life at home she has ever know. All you seem to be doing is just giving her more of the same of what she's always known, instead of being the white Prince who takes her away to a new castle in the West? No wonder she's peeved.
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That was my initial feeling too, but not enough info to be sure, I also plan to stay in the Philis and have been clear about that from the beginning although where is not yet decided, I think you need to give some thought to your personal boundaries in terms of who lives in your home.Your wife has probably never experienced autonomy thats something you can support without feeling cast in a role your uncomfortable withOriginally Posted by Win2Win
I don't usually agree with Keith but I think at this time, he is spot on..hehe
Yeah, and I think your wife is bored and fed up of her life in the Philippines. She might needed a break, a holiday abroad perhaps?
There is always death and taxes; however, death doesn't get worse every year.
I think you need to sell up and move somewhere else. Somewhere that is near enough for the 3 of to go and visit her family sometimes, but far enough away that they would find it costly to visit you and they wouldn't be able to drop in whenever they wanted to and end up living with you again.
There are more than 7000 islands in the Philippines and I think you would be better off moving to one where she has absolutely no family. You need some privacy and you both need to get used to being a family.
Iain.
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