how many are BONKERS.....................

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Hope ("am i bonkers" meets the right one soon)
Well I am a little disturbed reading the thread and having just in the last twelve months been chatting in chat site with filipina girl from rural philippines, a good catholic girl .I now have some concerns about the whole ""LOVE"" thing IS IT REAL??????

In love before ......so one mistake is

[andypaul]

Well stay friends and if you can afford it in time and money vist her as a friend see what happens.

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i am nearly certain all is good but just some reservations and some small pointers,,,,hmmmmm probbbabbbly a man thing ...hmmmm what are the percentages that all is right??

[Eljohno]

You really need to go there a few times and get to know her as its far to soon to be talking about love!

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i appreciate that ELjohno,,thankyou but am self employed .,..I would love to visit,,but time is the problem..we are both comitted to each other now..so we look for best plan forward

[Piamed]

I really believe that if the girl is not genuine, the signs will be clear but often ignored! If you feel that you will have a good time anyway of a great Plan B, why not visit!

T

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hmm plan b,,,,,,,thankyou for advice but got in my mind,,,,,,
set for filipino girl i been with few before n in gb and some asian before i know what i want

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well since my last lover not been bonking for a while ,,must be 2 years now hmmmmm

[Piamed]

I'll keep well away from you then!

T

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filipino freinds from ships hehehe not partners....love them fantastic people

[chino]

I really believe that if the girl is not genuine, the signs will be clear but often ignored! If you feel that you will have a good time anyway of a great Plan B, why not visit!

T

I hope so... i have not noticed anything... apart from some times she is a bit to full on... and does not like me talking to anyone other than people she knows!

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well its 1 or 2 years down the line and how much,,,,,,,,£3/4000 before i know the real truth ??????? well i am in love

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So are private investigators sooooo costly want to know sooner rather than later??
any help is much appreciated

[joebloggs]

So are private investigators sooooo costly want to know sooner rather than later??
any help is much appreciated

how do you know the PI is not going to rip you off , get as much out of you as he can, what if he finds nothing, but your G/F finds out , how would you like it, if you found out she had hired someone to spy on you

you chat to someone a few hours a week, 6500 miles away, you might even visit them, sure you both get on, but soon as you go back, you both go back to your own lifes but at the end of the day do they really know you and you know them .. money, time and distance cause problems with any relationship

so get her here or you go there asap, then you will know