I would like to offer some advice Tim, sit down and think about this seriously. Judith may be your true partner for the rest of your life, or she may be a scammer, why if you had her mobile number did you have to go back to the bar to see her?
If you do marry how are you going to explain how you met to your friends/ business colleages, because they normally ask, will you be able to cope with the her past during rows etc, without throwing it up in her face. You will have to be very strong and for gods sake dont mention it to your wife unless you want to see it bought up in the divorce court.
Saying all that, my mate married a bar girl from Thailand and they are very happy and just had a baby boy.
Peter [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.gif[/img]
