me again,i have just changed my setting's on messenger so i can use them in the future if i need them,as i wrote at the beginning of this tread, i am just starting out so any advice is gratefully received from the experts on here.I got married to a Thai girl in 1990 so i know things can be difficult and there will be a rocky road ahead for me,she left me after 5 years and now is back in the land of smiles,leaveing me to bring up my son alone,i have been single for 7 years so perhaps i am wanting somebody in my life,please don't judge me ,i hope to make friends on here in the future,is there any body out there in the Cardiff area,one last thing, is there a problem,as i first contacted Melanie On Filippinoheart,i was thinking of the visa in the future, thanks evryone jeff