sorry to hear about your story Darren!
i am a Filipino and i am not shy to say that some people in the Ph behave like that...they think white people are just picking up money on the road, sometimes no DELICADEZA at all...maybe because also of the poverty in the Philippines and once they tasted a piece of sweet they seem to despise the taste of a bitter lemon where they use to eat....
if she doesn't want to talk to you and to your wife anymore...who cares!!
she is just a narrow minded human!