Is he for real or reel?

[baboyako]

Sorry to sound harsh but the guy is NOT interested in you.

Brits are not slow, and filipinas are sexy [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/BouncyHappy.gif[/img] . If you meet a British guy who is interested in you, you will only know about it VERY quicky [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/Sex.gif[/img] [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wub.gif[/img]

[squareeyes]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(baboyako &#064; May 23 2006, 08&#58;36 PM) Quoted post</div><div class='quotemain'>
Sorry to sound harsh but the guy is NOT interested in you.

Brits are not slow, and filipinas are sexy [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/BouncyHappy.gif[/img] . If you meet a British guy who is interested in you, you will only know about it VERY quicky [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/Sex.gif[/img] [img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wub.gif[/img]
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Not always - it may depend on what kind of man he is and what he is looking for. Obviously you&#39;re friends and have been for a while which may be an issue - there may also be something in his life which holds him back that you don&#39;t know about.

I&#39;ve known a few women where there was a &#39;spark&#39; between us ([img]style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/Sex.gif[/img]) but it took months to work out for not very obvious reasons.

However, MOST British guys will let you know about it very quickly, but there are rare exceptions. Perhaps DeepRed you could ask him some discreet questions about how he feels? You seem to have covered things. From what he says, he sounds like he wants you to come running to him ("Once, he said he will not have to travel 5,000 miles just to be with someone, he is not moving elsewhere, and is not into cross-culture. For him a relationship is based on love and togetherness, thus, we do not have a relationship.") - ie, you are the one who has to travel, you have to adjust your culture, you have to etc, etc. Maybe he needs reassuring, but I think you&#39;re right in that if it&#39;s meant to be, it will happen. He&#39;s the man so let him do the driving - after all, you travelled over here to see him.

All the best