Yes i must agree too, Long absence makes a woman's mind worry a lot or man as well which the only cure would be a simple words like hi, hello. don't worry about me I am ok and I miss you. Simple things to show that you value and remember her on that day, a sort of inspiration for the day that's of course said from the heart not just because it's needed to say. It's like norturing the relationship to keep it warm. Most of the times when we worry it becomes stressful feeling because there is a lot of things going around our head which obviously needs relaxing and some answers to be able to relax.