love at a distance

[bornatbirth]

u know the problem i have?

is that when theres something on my gfs mind she keeps quiet until either i make her so mad or she cant control herself anymore and lets it all out!

like my gf your gf is alot more sensitive than us english men and silly little stuff will wouldnt even think about as a big effect on them and can make them have there little tantrums.

i get my gf accusing me of being insensitive,emotionless and thoughtless and clueless when shes having a bit of a tantrum and sometimes i dont even know what started it? lol

my gf as a habit of not telling me certain stuff and when shes worried and concerned im supposed to guess whats wrong,when i dont do i get it in the neck!

so what do i do to find out whats wrong?
well ifs shes quiet on yahoo then i know something is bothering her,so to get it over with and as she wont tell me wats wrong,i just start a fight and get her mad,she does get more mad at me but at lease i know wats wrong with her.

you just have to get used to her being more sensitive over the silly little things that may hurt her like its the end of the world?

just try to be more understanding to her and the way she thinks and even try talking to her on the reasons she gets hurt then at least u get to know her more?

i guess ur having problems just now like u mentioned in ur post,just think whats going on in her mind,her brain is spinning with different stuff.

so tell her what ur plans are to reassured her how u want her here with you,and most important tell her that you love her!!

[Piamed]

u know the problem i have?

when theres something on my gfs mind she keeps quiet until either i make her so mad

silly little stuff will wouldnt even think about as a big effect on them

can make them have there little tantrums.

i get my gf accusing me of being insensitive,emotionless and thoughtless and clueless

when shes worried and concerned im supposed to guess whats wrong,when i dont do i get it in the neck!

so what do i do to find out whats wrong?

i just start a fight and get her mad,she does get more mad at me but at lease i know wats wrong with her.

you just have to get used to her being more sensitive over the silly little things that may hurt her like its the end of the world?

Hehehehehehe! This is a joke, right!

just try to be more understanding to her and the way she thinks and even try talking to her on the reasons she gets hurt then at least u get to know her more?

most important tell her that you love her!!

I agree with that.

[aromulus]

u know the problem i have?

is that when theres something on my gfs mind she keeps quiet until either i make her so mad or she cant control herself anymore and lets it all out!

like my gf your gf is alot more sensitive than us english men and silly little stuff will wouldnt even think about as a big effect on them and can make them have there little tantrums.

i get my gf accusing me of being insensitive,emotionless and thoughtless and clueless when shes having a bit of a tantrum and sometimes i dont even know what started it? lol

my gf as a habit of not telling me certain stuff and when shes worried and concerned im supposed to guess whats wrong,when i dont do i get it in the neck!

so what do i do to find out whats wrong?
well ifs shes quiet on yahoo then i know something is bothering her,so to get it over with and as she wont tell me wats wrong,i just start a fight and get her mad,she does get more mad at me but at lease i know wats wrong with her.
!

No, mate, you will not know what is wrong for a while, until things cool down in her head....

By being confrontational, you just exacerbate her "tampo".

She will come out of her moods by herself, and she will eventually tell everything you in her own time.

All you have to do is just be there and be understanding, listen to her talking, don't ask too many questions about her mood at the time.

"Tampo" is a Filipina's weapon of choice......

[andypaul]

No, mate, you will not know what is wrong for a while, until things cool down in her head....

By being confrontational, you just exacerbate her "tampo".

She will come out of her moods by herself, and she will eventually tell everything you in her own time.

All you have to do is just be there and be understanding, listen to her talking, don't ask too many questions about her mood at the time.

"Tampo" is a Filipina's weapon of choice......

We in the UK and the west are very confrontational, in phill people are not as a rule.

Worth reading up about the diffences in cultures or one day things will go to far.

[bornatbirth]

No, mate, you will not know what is wrong for a while, until things cool down in her head....

By being confrontational, you just exacerbate her "tampo".

She will come out of her moods by herself, and she will eventually tell everything you in her own time.

All you have to do is just be there and be understanding, listen to her talking, don't ask too many questions about her mood at the time.

"Tampo" is a Filipina's weapon of choice......

lol i do know as she as told me,every time she gets mad it ends the same way.
she takes her anger out on me and i end up saying sorry

[LEAHnew]

..... we had spent about 6 months getting to know each other on the web and the on the phone before i visited Davao in March..... , .

You're both lucky, my bf visit me after 24 months and planning to settle in a year or more so much rushing

my gf as a habit of not telling me certain stuff and when shes worried and concerned im supposed to guess whats wrong,when i dont do i get it in the neck!

so what do i do to find out whats wrong?
well ifs shes quiet on yahoo then i know something is bothering her,so to get it over with and as she wont tell me wats wrong,i just start a fight and get her mad,she does get more mad at me but at lease i know wats wrong with her.

you just have to get used to her being more sensitive over the silly little things that may hurt her like its the end of the world?

just try to be more understanding to her and the way she thinks and even try talking to her on the reasons she gets hurt then at least u get to know her more?

i guess ur having problems just now like u mentioned in ur post,just think whats going on in her mind,her brain is spinning with different stuff.

so tell her what ur plans are to reassured her how u want her here with you,and most important tell her that you love her!!

PAGING MY kUKUPOPS U'RE NOT ALONE

No, mate, you will not know what is wrong for a while, until things cool down in her head....

By being confrontational, you just exacerbate her "tampo".

She will come out of her moods by herself, and she will eventually tell everything you in her own time.

All you have to do is just be there and be understanding, listen to her talking, don't ask too many questions about her mood at the time.

"Tampo" is a Filipina's weapon of choice......

Very well said Mod

[Mrs.JMajor]

You're both lucky, my bf visit me after 24 months and planning to settle in a year or more so much rushing





PAGING MY kUKUPOPS U'RE NOT ALONE


--00xx3:

paging kukurokuk kukupops where are you

dont let just kukurokuk post here huh,

[LEAHnew]

paging kukurokuk kukupops where are you

dont let just kukurokuk post here huh,

He is so busy sis.... moving heaven on earth

[kimmi]

No, mate, you will not know what is wrong for a while, until things cool down in her head....

By being confrontational, you just exacerbate her "tampo".

She will come out of her moods by herself, and she will eventually tell everything you in her own time.

All you have to do is just be there and be understanding, listen to her talking, don't ask too many questions about her mood at the time.

"Tampo" is a Filipina's weapon of choice......

Listen to the Mod..

[lavander]

u know the problem i have?

is that when theres something on my gfs mind she keeps quiet until either i make her so mad or she cant control herself anymore and lets it all out!

like my gf your gf is alot more sensitive than us english men and silly little stuff will wouldnt even think about as a big effect on them and can make them have there little tantrums.

i get my gf accusing me of being insensitive,emotionless and thoughtless and clueless when shes having a bit of a tantrum and sometimes i dont even know what started it? lol

my gf as a habit of not telling me certain stuff and when shes worried and concerned im supposed to guess whats wrong,when i dont do i get it in the neck!

so what do i do to find out whats wrong?
well ifs shes quiet on yahoo then i know something is bothering her,so to get it over with and as she wont tell me wats wrong,i just start a fight and get her mad,she does get more mad at me but at lease i know wats wrong with her.

you just have to get used to her being more sensitive over the silly little things that may hurt her like its the end of the world?

just try to be more understanding to her and the way she thinks and even try talking to her on the reasons she gets hurt then at least u get to know her more?

i guess ur having problems just now like u mentioned in ur post,just think whats going on in her mind,her brain is spinning with different stuff.

so tell her what ur plans are to reassured her how u want her here with you,and most important tell her that you love her!!

Dear Bornatbirth,
You hit it on the spot!...yes, that's how a typical filipina is...
Somewhat a bit 'toxic/moody' and times have 'sapi'/senti moods that when you on the spot...World War begins!!!

But the main point to address this from a point of view of a typical filipina is to let her know how much you care for her, assurance of you commitment to her and this will make her feel in cloud 9 and so the sapi will just vanish like a bubbles in the air...yes!...as if nothing happen hahahhaah...


just my 2cents....


lavander..