Originally Posted by aromulus
No, mate, you will not know what is wrong for a while, until things cool down in her head....
By being confrontational, you just exacerbate her "tampo".
She will come out of her moods by herself, and she will eventually tell everything you in her own time.
All you have to do is just be there and be understanding, listen to her talking, don't ask too many questions about her mood at the time.
"Tampo" is a Filipina's weapon of choice......
We in the UK and the west are very confrontational, in phill people are not as a rule.
Worth reading up about the diffences in cultures or one day things will go to far.
