I agree sometimes people say how can i do this or why does my partner say this.
But they fail to say wheter they are the male or female partner (if it same sex relationship no one on here blinks an eyelid)
Location, the age group of the two people involved and a bit about their background.
Sometimes if you knew a little more say its a early 20's fillpina/o who has never had a partner who is worried about meeting there partner or a mature guy or female from the west who has been married four times. You may get a better grasp of how to help and what to suggest.
No need for your life story folks but helps people see how they might be able to help if they know the basics of there background and relationship if thats what they need advice on.