I am so sorry to hear about your story sphinx.as i was reading your story i realize how lucky I am to have a nice and wonderful husband just recently we had a mis understanding a pity one really and I exaggerate things and it came to a point that I went to the loft and took the big case to pack my things (unfortunately it wasnt enough) and also I dont know where to go but the thing there is we had`nt had a fight really.I even didnt know why I reacted like that I was just being childish I supposed but that pity mis understanding didnt last long (tnx goodness)silly me!we just had a big cuddle.My husband said am always in a bad mood if its my PMS starts and I think am agreing with him.As for your case I dont know what to say,as long as you do whats in your heart and what makes you happy and not regret it.Go for it but can you just pray for it first that he`ll change and talk things about it with him first and take it from there!if you go on your separate ways,have you thought about the kid/kids?its all up to you,you know whats best for you!