Quote Originally Posted by sphinx View Post
been reading this before but never registered myself..i am also looking if i can read something or the same story as mine,here it goes...
i am married, with one child, live here in the UK, we came from Eastern Europe and now being settled here for awhile..
i married my husband 4 years ago, i love him and i know he loves me...as we go on in our marriage, of course there are times we are in a row, sometimes i hear foul words that i feel i dont deserve, i know i am not perfect so i also say something that could hurt his ego, he shouted several times, strangled me twice bec. i dont like to make love with him..inspite of those, i remained to be nice and responsible wife and mother, i forgave him several times, gave him _th chances as after our fight he begged for forgivesness....and many more sad stories to tell...now i am falling out of love, been also to a counsellor but i couldn't open my heart anymore to him, i feel there is a revenge already inside me, grudges, heartaches and frustrations as well...
but whenever i think of leaving him, i feel pity on him..
what am i going to follow? my heart that i don't love him anymore or my conscience leaving him?
i know after reading this everybody wants to crucify me and maybe they wouldn't understand, but i am ready to take all the words being thrown upon me.......
i feel for you sphinx, if you think you have given him enough chance to change and still nothing has been achieved...then there is no more reason to be with him...aside from the words and physical abuse that you might have with him in the future, am scared for you to loose your self respect later on, given that you still have kid that will depend on you for sure...so to avoid more possible damages....break the routine and try to smell the other side of the fence....HELLO!...di na kaya uso ang martir!


and lastly .... ask HIS guidance.... you can never go wrong with HIM guiding you all the way... cheer up....





lavander...