sphinx i say get out now while you can .
it scared me to hear you say that he strangled you because
you would not make love to him.maybe his violence will get
worse you never know.you have to go . i know its sad for him but
he not deserve you if he is violent to you.
if he love you , he would never hurt you but he has physically
hurt you so trust jen and me (jens fiance) hes no good .
take care of yourself sphinx.