12 May 2008 - BBC1

[chino]

putting yourself last, these are the only faults of the filipina

Is that still not her own fault?

[joebloggs]

Is that still not her own fault?

could her family just be as equal to blame for asking her for money

it's easy for things to get out of hand, i don't know if she is the oldest ?

i don't remember if it mentioned if they 'asked' her for money, or she 'offered' to pay, i would have thought he she was getting in debt, she didn't offer, but was 'pressured' into it, where she felt she couldn't say no, even thou she was struggling, again a attribute of a filipina