I Have to say I find this whole story bizarre ! and i find this lame excuse that she is afraid to contact you suspect ! rubbish ! she has a very good reason for not contacting you, and firstly, a Newly married Filipina is not going to all of a sudden drop contact with the new husband, and in any event this does not apply only to newly marrieds.

Filipina's who have been married for 4 years or more, will always ensure they contact the hubby, my Gina and I are often seperated for weeks on end during the summer holidays, when she goes home to relax.

We speak at least twice a day, once in the morning when I wake up to go to work, on the discount dial number, and once in the evening before I retire to bed.

The conversations are not long, just a quick hi honey, how are you, did this today, did that, went to the dentist, picked up the dry cleaning, had sweet and sour chicken for my dinner, and yes honey i did switched off the oven, yes honey, i did make sure the fridge door is properly closed, what was that the washing machine, yes its ok, I wash clothes after midnight, dont worry." bye honey see you tomorrow.

This regular rather mundane contact, is pretty typical of most couples, whether it be newly marrieds or longer term marrieds, you should be comfortable with each other, distance after marriage should not present any problems.

There is always a reason why they will not contact you, you just have to get to the bottom of the real story in time.