Ian's point is very valid, reading between the lines I am starting to agree with him, was she pressurized into marriage to you, so that Munting Hiling could start.
Western benefactors or financier's are sorely needed to solve urgent and life threatening requests.
Her father may be putting pressure on her now to obtain a regular allowance for the family, she may have gone away for a few days on holiday, especially if you left her with 3 months money, that is like giving them a huge bonus at christmas.
But then again, why no contact with you, if she was in arguments with the Tatay about being pushed into asking you for money, then why no contact with you.
Time is the key here, it will sort itself out in time, as they say, everything has its own time in the Philippines, or is that Thailand ?
