All gone wrong since the Marriage.

[Arturo]

Reluctant to make love on the honeymoon!

I find that part of your story very strange. It could well be that after you became involved with her and went to visit her, she came under pressure from her family to marry you even if she didn't really want to, so that they (the family) would have a western benefactor. This could explain why she is in hiding from both you and her family.

I really do hope I am very wrong and that there is another explanation for her current behaviour and her behaviour during the honeymoon.

Iain.

I know this is really childish........ if it was a civil wedding with a judge...... was it legally registered ...or did you pay for a big party for the rellies, and the "judge" forgot to sort the paper workout.

Just read a thread about solicitors over in Ph , being slightly off the centreline! Which sent my twisted little mind on this track!