All gone wrong since the Marriage.

[mickcant]

Hi all, it has been some months since i last posted, yes i do now have a marriage certificate from the NSO and all seems legal.

My wife is working in Manila, and said in one of her rare texts that she is working to make the visa money she spent back up, and that she is trying to support her siblinga as well, she will not say how much she has towords the visa interview or if she has applied for one.

It is now six months since our marriage, she will not use email since the marriage so we have no proof of our limited contact, is there a time limit on arranging the interview? we did fill out the online applacation while i was still there with her, could she get through a interview after a six month gap?

I do have an appointment to see a solicitor here in the UK in two weeks, could i get an annoulment on the grounds of her not going for the visa interview even though i had given her more than enough to cover all the cost.

I do reasise she could never be trusted if we were together here both with money and for the many lies she has told me.
Thanks,
Mick Cant.

[aromulus]

I think that other forum members will agree with me on this, mate.

The situation you find yourself in, is very sad and unfortunate.
We won't know for sure wether you have been a victim of an elaborate scam or not.

In the absence of absolute proof, either way, I would err on the side of caution, end all contact and start divorce proceedings in the UK.

But obviously the ultimate decision rests with you
Which ever way you decide to act, we will understand and not pass judgement.

Good luck.

[Alan]

I think that other forum members will agree with me on this, mate.

The situation you find yourself in, is very sad and unfortunate.
We won't know for sure wether you have been a victim of an elaborate scam or not.

In the absence of absolute proof, either way, I would err on the side of caution, end all contact and start divorce proceedings in the UK.

But obviously the ultimate decision rests with you
Which ever way you decide to act, we will understand and not pass judgement.

Good luck.

Mick,

Wise words from Aromulus.

Whatever happens though, you have good friends on here. If you are ever down, talk to us - we are here to support.

Good luck!

Al.

[eljean]

Well,she seems like sticking up with you for money...you just got married and everything and then why does she started going away from her family and cut off all contacts, i don't think she can repay you from the money she lost and i don't think so that she lose it on internet scam,i don't like manila it is so expensive to live therewhat kind of job she got?
Obviously, she got more reasons than will sadly, it only mean one things she not interested about you trust me my husband only send me visa payment and and he pays for my fare to england and some travel expenses to CFO seminar but thats it...i think 1,100 pound is way so early for you to send it to her especially when she hasn't even the documents required yet for visaprobably she's living like a pro with it...