time and distance creates many problems..a big one trust.. you both meet each other for a few weeks of the year and have a great time. then you both part and go back to your own little world knowing it will be many months b4 you see each other again, you soon get back to your 'normal' life and routine. i did this for 3 years before i finally got the misses here..

who knows if she scamming/using you.only her, does she often ask you for large amounts of money?