ye i agree.....real hard for you to trust at this point of time..(understandable on your part) don't rush into things that you are not so sure yet it ends up you in a big trouble....make things slowly a bit..enjoy getting to know each other without money involves at first just try to test if how long she will go on chatting with... she even tells you lies with regards to her status, shes making moves to get all your attention at first and make you believe with so many promises that turns you on.....And yes you are almost on your way of believing her...I wonder why she never tells you the real fact that shes actually committed and married... maybe theres a lot more things behind on her back ..you never know yet...........a lot more things happen and thats what you gonna find out. Why don't you ask if she has a kids as well? Really really a lot more things for you to find out espcecially on the case that shes totally and legally married.....you start to know lil by lil and weigh things up more before you trusted her in a big part....(woried if you will be more attach to her and that later on you founded something fishy) that hurts you more ..............
Anyway ...with regards to the annulment....it takes a long process yeah and a big cash involv, what i can advice maybe is....don't just file one yet, know her more...weigh things up more before jumping in a long que. Get to know her more first............in the right time you will know if she deserves your love and attention....money is nothing if that girl is deserving enough........your first step is to meet her in person and get to know her more, spend quality time with each.....and later on if you both feel attracted and inlove with each..yes thats the time you have to decide to take into a bigger step in filling annulment for you both to be more comfortable in facing the next chapter with no doubts.............and that everything will fall into place...after then you can decide in your own if she deserves to be trusted especially with the money involves(only time can tell).....for now just enjoy yourself getting to know each other more and more..............better especially in person....
oh...yea 15,000 is quite big enough for a man to send esp if havent seen in real yet..no wonder why she doesnt feel like to work instead........well anyway this is just my piece of cents..................don't take it seriously as yours better than mine.....(its all up to you) follow your instinct....
