To Trust Or Not To Trust? (That Is My Question!)

[Sconnie]

doesnt take long

[aposhark]

Aposhark, what part of Salford did you live in ?

Near Salford - Peel Green.
By the M60

[joebloggs]

Near Salford - Peel Green.
By the M60

what road...

[aposhark]

what road...

Southlands Ave.

I used to go to the "Grapes" to watch the matches on Sky.
Nice people there.

[joebloggs]

Southlands Ave.

I used to go to the "Grapes" to watch the matches on Sky.
Nice people there.

yes, i know the place,Sealands, and Newlands ,,,

i live on liverpool road a few 100 metres away from Southlands, i use to walk past there twice a day, taking the dog for a walk on the fields near the areodrome

nice houses there

small world,,,

[aposhark]

yes, i know the place,Sealands, and Newlands ,,,

i live on liverpool road a few 100 metres away from Southlands, i use to walk past there twice a day, taking the dog for a walk on the fields near the areodrome

nice houses there

small world,,,

This is weird I used to run all the time near the cemetery, about 4 times a week. I run 20-30 miles a week minimum.

I used to have to dodge a few dogs around there!

Such Is Life

[joebloggs]

not my dog, never let her off her lead
thou, me and the dog might have chased you


the cemetery is where i take little joe and the dog for a walk, nice place for a cemetery ...

hmm we could have passed each other many times... you definately went passed where i live if you went to the cemetery..

well hope it all goes for you and your misses ex-neighbour

[paul brogden]

ian i am an exspert in the art of the scammers i have talked to many of them and have a mate who let me know about the asian scams as well have you not thought the girl you see on webcam could not really be her???????? im an exspert in the tell tale signs of scammers weather they be from africa asia or russia some do come out of america but few do. i will soon be writing a full post on the subject but due to it is very long i think i'll rest before writing it. but do keep an eye out for it.

i havent read all your post be take it from me scammers lie lie lie. ok never send money if you can help it unless you have met them in person. if you find one lie thats where you will find many more. i learnt the hard way and had my heart ripped out i would never wish that on any one and i lost alot of money. but i learned the hard way. please doubt every thing but they will try every trick in the book to convince you from sending fake passports to guilt tripping you. this is how they get you to send money.

sounds like its working. if sending money to a solicitor send a cheque to the named lawer firm not a indivisual this way you can confirm what she is saying dont send a personal cheque. to a person just send it named to the bussiness. keep an eye out for my post regarding scammers that means every one because it will help you keep safe.

[keithAngel]

ian i am an exspert in the art of the scammers i have talked to many of them and have a mate who let me know about the asian scams as well have you not thought the girl you see on webcam could not really be her???????? im an exspert in the tell tale signs of scammers weather they be from africa asia or russia some do come out of america but few do. i will soon be writing a full post on the subject but due to it is very long i think i'll rest before writing it. but do keep an eye out for it.

i havent read all your post be take it from me scammers lie lie lie. ok never send money if you can help it unless you have met them in person. if you find one lie thats where you will find many more. i learnt the hard way and had my heart ripped out i would never wish that on any one and i lost alot of money. but i learned the hard way. please doubt every thing but they will try every trick in the book to convince you from sending fake passports to guilt tripping you. this is how they get you to send money.

sounds like its working. if sending money to a solicitor send a cheque to the named lawer firm not a indivisual this way you can confirm what she is saying dont send a personal cheque. to a person just send it named to the bussiness. keep an eye out for my post regarding scammers that means every one because it will help you keep safe.

Ian may well be in Thailand now at least he said he would be there 3 weeks ago and hasnt posted here since so I for one have fingers crossed for him.

Cant wait for the promised post Paul the last few years has been an education but im always keen to learn more

[aromulus]

Ian may well be in Thailand now at least he said he would be there 3 weeks ago and hasnt posted here since so I for one have fingers crossed for him.

Cant wait for the promised post Paul the last few years has been an education but im always keen to learn more

No need to wait, mate.

Plenty to choose from with this link....
http://forum.419eater.com/forum/inde...36151d74c55f0e

Enjoy the good read....

[keithAngel]

No need to wait, mate.

Plenty to choose from with this link....
http://forum.419eater.com/forum/inde...36151d74c55f0e

Enjoy the good read....

Thanks now I know what to do with the rest of my life

[andypaul]

Thanks now I know what to do with the rest of my life

Keith that PM you sent me about winning the Nigerian super duper lottery mega rollover and you need me to give you the deeds of my gaff and all my money so you can go and pick up the winnings.

I lost the pm can you send me your address again please?

[IanB]

I'm back! Thailand was wonderful. My gf is a lovely lady. I will write more later, but for now I have just one more serious worry.

As I said, everything I can see about her leads me to trust her. I too know a lot of "scammers" (all Thai, though)*, and she does not fit the profile. However, I am being ultra cautious, maybe even paranoid. The last remaining concern is that she still wants to handle the anullment herself. She does not want me to send money direct to the lawyer. her reasons do not make sense to me. I think, in the end, I will simply press on an say that the contract with the lawyer is with me, take it or leave it, and see what happens.

If she is a scammer, surely she is the best in the world. Its sad that I don't feel I can completely open up with her yet.

Ian

* a long story but many of my friends in Thailand are ex bar girls and many of them strong along several boyfriends at a time.

[Sim11UK]

Glad that you finally got to meet up with your girlfriend, as I was wondering how it was going.

Keep us posted though, with your concerns.

[Scouse]

Hi Ian

You didn't say where you first got in contact with her but if it was a dating site or chat room see if you can find her again and set up a new profile to contact her. You will find out if she is genuine when you get the replies.

[aromulus]

Hi Ian

You didn't say where you first got in contact with her but if it was a dating site or chat room see if you can find her again and set up a new profile to contact her. You will find out if she is genuine when you get the replies.

Trust a scouser to come up with that one........

[lizaphil]

Get a ticket fly to Phil, surprised her, get the answer for all your questions. It will only take you a week to clear your doubts . If you want to continue with this relation I think it is better to clear out your doubts right away.
You should take actions right away to see clear on where you are going and what you are doing...

well done pea

[LEAHnew]

I'm back! Thailand was wonderful. My gf is a lovely lady. I will write more later, but for now I have just one more serious worry.

As I said, everything I can see about her leads me to trust her. I too know a lot of "scammers" (all Thai, though)*, and she does not fit the profile. However, I am being ultra cautious, maybe even paranoid. The last remaining concern is that she still wants to handle the anullment herself. She does not want me to send money direct to the lawyer. her reasons do not make sense to me. I think, in the end, I will simply press on an say that the contract with the lawyer is with me, take it or leave it, and see what happens.

If she is a scammer, surely she is the best in the world. Its sad that I don't feel I can completely open up with her yet.

Ian

* a long story but many of my friends in Thailand are ex bar girls and many of them strong along several boyfriends at a time.

Welcome back Ian, looking forward for your post..

[keithAngel]

Trust a

scouser

to come up with that one........

Standard operating procedure

[Scouse]

No body seems to trust us, we don't trust outsiders!

[ANDRES25]

What a lucky girl! anyways, I agree to all who said that you should not pursue with the annulment case, meet her first and get to know her better. And then stop sending her money, or just send her money for the rental of computer so u can chat evryday.. 5,000 is more than enough. we'll see if she will still continue to talk to u and say those sweet things. I didn't have my own pc before and not even earning much but I still make an effort just to go to a computer shop to talk to my hubby.. I never asked anything from him but then he was the one always offering help. U really wanna make sure that she's sincere and not just after your money. BE WISE!!!