Hi Jaywin, I'm glad you have met someone nice, well i hope. Some guys decide to meet up with their lady friend in the first stage of "getting to know each other stage" so that they may know at once if they want to pursue with the intentions by not spending too much if it won't come out on what they are expecting but, some decide to exchange e-mails, calls and textes first for at least 3-6 mos before meeting up in that way he already got an idea of the traits of her. You seem a nice lady Jaywin and you deserve someone with the same character. All the best.