Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
you can do both, my wife works and looks after the kids

why can you not do, here what you do in the phils

you do whats best for you both, i'm thinking of packing work in, and looking after little joe til he's school age, becuase my wife can earn a lot more than i can.

my wife works parttime with someone, her husband earns over £100,000 a year, his wife wants to quit work, he will not let her if she wants to quit, whats he going to do
Here in Phil most of the married couple I've known which includes my mom and dad are working both in order to survived living


Quote Originally Posted by sam_althea View Post
career first..love will then follow after having a good career...nowadays, young people want stability, where old people want career..(that's my honest opinion)
Thanks for your honest opinion

Quote Originally Posted by Piamed View Post
A difficult decision but I think the dilemma is one that can face the husband or wife. I have a good job with high earning potential but have to travel a great deal. I definitely don't plan to travel as much when Pia is here as I married her because I want to have a regular home life with her flushed with quality time.
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Ultimately, its a trade-off. Quality family time vs. careeer. My wife and family come first.
Thanks for sharing amigo
Goodluck to your wife visa application