its nice to hear that you've found a nice lady name judith but like what erve said she's quite true we know more what kind of behaviour of our countrymen always remember that one of the most attitude of a filipino I hate is a crab mentality (if you don't know ) so be careful you not meet this type of people as well. And be carefull buying a house that is not legal or having all the documents I mean the dead of seal and make sure that's is not collateral in the bank by the owner please be aware of this

It's up to you it's your decision.Good luck