I met my wife in online 5 years ago in the Phils. For five years of marriage everything's okay we have a beautiful 3 year old daugther.
My nightmare starts 6 months ago when I found out that my wife had an affair whom she met thru texting. I found out this relationship when my wife left her cellphone unattended and I open her inbox out of curiosity and I read a few messages though its in tagalog but the word " mahal, i miss you, i love you and kiss n hugg " you don't send it to a friend isn't it? I am so devastated that time I can't believed in my eyes that my wife will do such a thing. My daughter even mention to me that her mum has a male visitor sometimes so my conclusion is justified that she has an affair. I didn't confront my wife bec I am so scared to know that truth there's a famous saying " what you don't know won't hurt you " so I just ignore it but deep inside i am deeply hurt asking my self where did I go wrong.
One day I went home early and unexpectedly the guy is in our house. He is a filipino working here as a caregiver. I keep my self calm down and its like there's nothing going on and we talk etc.
To make the long story short, finally I confronted my wife of what I know and what I found out. My wife facial expression is so imaginable. And she admitted that she and the guy has an affair but its just a fling and nothing more. How can I believe her? She's asking a second chance.
I love my wife so much and I don't want a broken family but I don't trust her anymore. Right now our relationship is in limbo and full of tension and I am trying my best that my daughter is okay despite the situation we have right now.
Sorry for the long story. I just want an outlet I can't even tell to my friends/family our situation bec Im still protecting her.
Good day to all!
Ritter
