I'm really very sorry to hear what you and your daughter are going through. I'm at a lost for words.
I've certainly come across a number of atypical filipinas recently in Germany, Scandinavia and Holland. Not in UK yet.
I've seen many of these clowns and I feel ashamed that I am included in that homogenous group Foreigner with them. They stand for so much that I abhor.my husband dont like to attend in that gathering coz mostly americans went there to boast and act like they own the world.