Talk to her Ritters,give her ultimatum, cause if you just leave like that...she will get on...but the more you give her hard time the more she scared to meet the guy...btw you're still young..don't afraid to lose her,also not a good reason that u don't like to have broken family ? nahh,even she step in your pride,
Here in Philippines we have saying married man can flirt many times nothing will lost they still man,but if the married woman get flirt shes totally prosti (cheapppppppp)
"ang asawang lalaki pag pumatol sa iba,lalaki pa din!!
pag ang asawang babae pumatol sa iba..puta na yon"