talk to ur wife seriously.if she is willing to kiss and made up and promised u ,that it will not happen again.if ever try to rebuild again ur trust to her coz without the presence of it,relationship still in dark side and doubts still there that makes trouble again and again.if ever u wil forgive her of what she done..try to forgive and forget.. to make relationship smooth again.just give one more chance if u still love her...and for ur daughter too.if ever uve kissed and made up,dont talk it over and over again.PAST IS ENOUGH.rebuild and hv trust again with so much love. if ever she will do it again...i think its time to have it period.SO GOOD LUCK..