thank u misscarie glad to know im not alone I know that our parents are just protecting us especially my papa he is very worried if my bf will marry me or come back to visit again. Everytime my bf visits me, i stay with him in the hotel i want to be with him every minute while hes here,,same thing with him. Im in my 30's so i know what im doing, im old enough to make my own decisions. thats why my parents worry too much ,we all know here in the philippines sleeping together before marraige is not acceptable. Filipino parents dont accept this kind of situation, thats why i dont blame them if they always suspiscious with my bf. I explained everything to him and he understood, he said he will do the right thing and we get engage this month. marriage will follow soon coz he still saving for it. But i think my family still not happy coz what they want is marriage coz we been sleeping together everyone gives me grief, my gran, my aunts they said im not behaving like a true filipina its really eating me out.