stress with my family and friends

[maganda]

Why dont you you just tell your family and friends to mind their own business because you are a big girl and can decide for yourself.

Warn them that if they put pressure on you and things did not turned the way you wanted they are to be blamed. Make them guilty thats if they still have feelings .

Good luck...

We filipinos cannot just say to our family "to mind their own business" age does not matter. Big girl or not, they are always there. Its doing my head in especially my friends everytime they meet my bf they always ask "when is marriage?" Seems all the ppl here in PI when they see a flilpina and a white man, the very first thing they would ask "whens the big event or when are u marrying" My bf said the filipinos are nosey ppl

[telford]

We filipinos cannot just say to our family "to mind their own business" age does not matter. Big girl or not, they are always there. Its doing my head in especially my friends everytime they meet my bf they always ask "when is marriage?" Seems all the ppl here in PI when they see a flilpina and a white man, the very first thing they would ask "whens the big event or when are u marrying" My bf said the filipinos are nosey ppl

well sis, if i were u,dont mind them!go on with your life,in time they will stop asking u about it... btw, when will be the BIG DAY??? ...joke

[kentish]

We filipinos cannot just say to our family "to mind their own business" age does not matter. Big girl or not, they are always there. My bf said the filipinos are nosey ppl

Why not? Pinay ako day. I'm a pinay. Its just a matter of explaining it to them in a way that they really understand.
Your bf is right though. Not all but most filipinos are nosey especially when they see a poreiner(foreigner).

[Piamed]

poreiner(foreigner).

Pooreiner ako! I'm a pooreiner!

[alicat]

Pooreiner ako! I'm a pooreiner!