technically i have divorced my family back home, they were all about money, they cant text or send us bday cards but they texts if the money we sent ran out! we send them £450 a month but they couldnt survive on that and need more :o! after 16 years of sending money back home i thought it is about time i put my family here first, life has certainly improved for us with £450 a month extra to spend the joy of shopping has been rediscovered!